SINCE WHEN MEN BECAME NONCHALANT???

yall used to go to war. What happened? Did I miss a memo?

It’s like nobody cares about anything anymore.

I don’t want a man who acts like a girlfriend. I want someone obsessed, who shows up, who makes it known that I’m his. IS THAT SO HAAAAARD????

People are so scared of looking "too eager" that they’d rather play it cool and lose something real than actually put in the effort. Effort is hot. Caring is hot. I don't know what y'all are on right now. Is it in the wind? Who knows.

Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m not out here desperate for love. I’m perfectly fine on my own, enjoying life, sipping my tea, and watching this chaotic dating scene unfold like a bad reality show. But I can’t help but notice how people have made caring look like a weakness. Since when did effort become embarrassing? Since when did showing actual interest become a crime? It’s like everyone is stuck in a never-ending game of who can care less, and frankly, I’m not here for it.

Back in the day, people wrote love letters, made mixtapes, and showed up unannounced with flowers. Now, we’re out here thinking a double-tap on Instagram is a grand romantic gesture. A man will watch every single one of your stories, like your thirst trap, and still act like texting first is some kind of Olympic sport. Make it make sense.

If I'm to fall in love, I want a man who makes it clear that I’m the center of his world. Not in some creepy, suffocating way, but in a way that leaves no room for doubt. A man who actually calls instead of just texting "wyd" for the fifth time in a row like I'm his sidechick. Someone who pays attention to details, who notices when my mood shifts, who prioritizes me without making it feel like a chore. A man who takes charge, who isn’t afraid to express his emotions, who doesn’t act like catching feelings is a weakness.

Because honestly, if I’m into you, I’m into you. I’m not here to play the "who cares less" game. I want passion. I want intensity. I want someone who makes me feel like I’m worth the chase, not some half-hearted, bare-minimum energy that leaves me questioning everything.

and people dare to ask you why and how you are single - THIS IS THE REASON. Men are acting like women in the dating scene. They lack guts and probably use their two balls in a ping pong, coz you don't feel them balls anymore lol

So to all the nonchalant men out there: if you can’t show up, step aside. Because I promise you, someone out there will.

xoxo
Grasya